Violet: Do you like where you’re from?
sure i do, both as a city and country. though after living in rauma (where i’m originally from) for about twenty years, it really was starting to get on my nerves and it’s wonderful to be finally living somewhere else. rauma’s a nice place, but far too small and with only one high school, so everyone in my age group knew each other and that was just… nope. now it feels wonderful going there as the town isn’t so infested with familiar faces, ah.
and as for finland, welp, there’s not much i can complain about. i’m able to lead a comfortable life in here and that’s pretty much enough for me.
Oxlip: Would you ever get into a long distance relationship?
sure, i guess. as long as we are able to stay in contact, i wouldn’t mind. never tried it before, so it’s difficult to say how it would turn out in the end, but eh, why not :D
not like i can get into a short distance relationship either.
Carnation: If I handed you a concert ticket right now, who would you want to be the performer?
gee i have no idea who it could be let’s see—- sound horizon, duh? if just one performer, then joelle u3u
Allium: What’s the best thing you can cook?
i think i’ve mastered making lasagne, so i’m gonna say that. otherwise, i just make super simple dishes which mainly consist of frying stuff so… that isn’t anything special. i mean, even lasagne is pretty simple, in the end, but the cheese sauce can be tricky if you don’t know what you’re supposed to do ´A`;; i’m certainly no master chef, i tell ye.
Poinsettia: Favorite holiday dish?
in finland ham beats turkey, and even if i don’t like pork meat in general (it usually gives me a tummy ache???), i like christmas ham! other than that, raw spiced salmon and some sort of squeaky cheese (idk i never found its name in english) is super yummy *o*!
Zinnia: Who was your best friend when you were six years old?
when i was six, huh… that’s was so long ago…
not sure if that was the phase where i was between, uhh, “changing” best friends; for the longest of times my best friend had been this one girl i had met in daycare, but we ended up going to different schools and whilst she made new friends, i wasn’t as lucky (introvert since forever, yo).
this lead to such an unfortunate circle, where i would call her to ask if we could play together, and she declining because she had already made plans with a person X. and i swear that X was a different name every time i called her. i grew frustrated, and jealous, until one day my mom advised that i should let her call me, instead. and, well, i believe she never called me. :D
that’s how you destroy friendships, people. they just slowly wither away.
People seem to forget that when problems are discussed, it doesn’t mean those problems didn’t exist before someone decided to speak up. Silence doesn’t equal a healty fandom. Despite claiming all is accepted, discussion on tumblr die before they even start. The fear of conflict is too great. It’s not a discussion, it’s a popularity contest.
That’s why tumblr sucks as a discussion platform.
i can’t even count the times when i have wanted to step up and engage in a discussion with someone, but have instead found myself doing what many do when annoyed: bashing the frustration out in some other way, in some other place. of course this doesn’t get rid of the real issue, which is maybe why when the discussion finally takes place it tends to explode into a much greater issue.
it’s the same problem in any aspect of life where discussion is encouraged, so don’t make conflict your enemy.